Starting Over...Again

 Spoiler Alert...I'm not a technology person.  I like to try but it's really not where I'm gifted and with the real website I tried to make work I lost the whole purpose of what I was doing.  I'm not a web designer, I don't understand how to navigate the "back door" of a website.  I do enjoy blogging, and Ive been successful in maintaining a casual blog in the past.  

So here I am knowing what I want to do with this next chapter of my life and realizing my limits.  

What do I want to do (along with my stay at home mom career...which I still love...despite the laundry situation) is help parents who like me are trying to do whatever they can to make sure their child has a chance to be successful.  I'm still in the trenches, and the pandemic added to the weeds, so I'm not here as an expert.  I'm here as a learner.  I'm here to share my story and I'm here to share my struggles, but I'm also here to share what I've learned and continue to learn.  I have come a long way, as a parent, as an advocate and as an adult (because nothing says adult like fighting insurance and managing paperwork).  

I'm a natural question asker and my natural personality is to not sit by and take crap...for better or for worse.  I'm blunt honest, I'm not going to share stories all rainbows and sunshine but also not doom and gloom.  This blog is a fresh start for me, a place where I can share insights, tips, fears, truth and what has helped me.


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